Yeah, no, I agree he did a good job. So I guess I misinterpreted what you were saying back then.
[ he thinks if you ask someone if they're doing enough you're implying that they're not. but maybe he just thinks that because he can be so passive aggressive himself. ]
[ he thinks that's very nice when she does it but it is so far removed from his way of existing. ]
I don't know, I think I tend to default to more negative interpretations of things most of the time, so that doesn't help.
[ except for the rare cases where he thinks he might have a chance with someone he has no chance with and then that just convinces him that he needs to think even more negatively. ]